Now chomi I know when this friendship began none of what I am about to say was discussed or ever seemed necessary but I just wanted to put it out there   I wanted to ask you if we could from now on base our friendship on two fundamental things?…Truth and trust I promise to return the favour but here is what I’m looking for: Truth in your words to me at all times in any situation, environment or instance Truth in that our serious conversations will be filled with heartfelt advice coming from a place of reverence and … Continue reading Memo to my friends

As I climb Mount perseverance thoughts of my journey plague me Will I even reach the peak of this…no I shunt even think it Mount perseverance brace me please with the sweet  finesse of success Mount perseverance shun me not whilst the vile claws of failure leave me no more Mount Perseverance have mercy on me As I climb Mount perseverance thoughts of my journey plague me Continue reading Mount Perseverance

So once upon a last week I managed to indulge in what I can only describe as a decadent slice of humble pie. All was well and I was gallantly trotting on the high horse which I recently discovered I rode. Long story short an argument ensued sparked by an unexpected outburst from me because of an issue that had been festering in me for some time. Unfortunately I can’t divulge the full details of this argument as I wasn’t the only party involved. Okay back to the story…so during this quarrel I was feeling strong arms flinging in the … Continue reading Fat piece of humble pie

A thought comes to mind and I toil with it until alas I write about it. I wondered how I define myself, and further more how would I like to be remembered? My thoughts then strayed to whether I defined myself according to my own understanding of who Enhle is what I am capable of and what I aspire to achieve? I then spiralled into a frenzy of asking all close friends how they defined themselves. This was most interesting the responses I got ranged from people sounding as though they were in an interview others I wondered if they … Continue reading How do we define ourselves?

I find myself perplexed by relationships, relationships in general. We make new friends all the time, meet new colleagues, become familiar with new acquaintances and lovers and so on and so. Whilst these relationships seemingly develop and progress naturally, I’m momentarily intrigued by the how of it all? How really are personalities meshed into a “relationship” or co-existence?  So I figure relationships develop by means of learning about each other consciously or unconsciously. Whilst growing up you’re prepared to deal with the world and all the personalities in it. From parents encouraging you to be more accommodating of people different … Continue reading Question: How do we teach each other to live with each other?