Freedom from New Year’s resolutions in our life time

Yes I said it No more new year’s resolutions, they make no sense what so ever and we need to stop it.SO you could be thinking at this point what is her problem? Well here it is the concept of New Year’s resolutions is one that with each year I find increasingly annoying, it sends a dangerous message of when we are to begin new beginnings. The only thing beginning in the New Year is the year that’s it. Not your relationship, business, personality, mindset or LIFE. So let’s stop with the hullabaloo of “Next year I’m going to gym, … Continue reading Freedom from New Year’s resolutions in our life time

Thankful for the women in my life

9th of August Womans day 2012, my day began with an early breakfast with a group of lovely ladies. Good food and good company are usually the makings of a fantastic day for me.As I looked around the table and listened to the conversation I was overcome by a deep sense of gratitude, for having these people in my life. I thought of all the amazing women I have the privilege of calling friends,sisters,aunts,mother and grandmother. Truly I am blessed and can only pray my being in their lives as well adds value to them. I am thankful to the women whose names occupy space in my inbox,are … Continue reading Thankful for the women in my life

Exercising freedom

Exercising our individual freedom as different entities with varying backgrounds and circumstances, that make us a part of this very interesting rainbow nation is a topic not spoken of enough.With each precarious topic we exposed to by the media ,discussed on social networks ,spoken of at the office,on the train and so on.Freedom  constantly being exercised opinions blurted out eloquently,sloppily,liked, retweeted,criticised and disputed. I ask is this all freedom is about debate,accusation and insult? is that it? I have heard it said before that with freedom comes great responsibility. A responsibility that does not entitle you to anger and disgruntled rage alone but also active participation in resolving … Continue reading Exercising freedom

Good bye petal

 Your radiance  reminiscent of a perfect sunflower will be missed by all who’ve had your precious petal fall upon them The distinct aspects of your beauty fondly resemble the petals of a sunflower The light that beams from your smile is brighter than the sun don’t ever let that change The saddest thing that could occur would be you not being the flower you are everywhere you go. Keep growing Bye petal Continue reading Good bye petal

No amount of words

No amount of words could express How happy I am to have met you How sad I am that you are  leaving How excited I am knowing that we will remain friends even far beyond this here situation that caused our paths to cross. All the adjectives I can think of simply do not epitomise How beautiful you are How humble your stride is How gracious your advise has been How loving your criticism is How charming your wit is Mostly how blessed all who have met you and those who are still to meet you are Farewell my friend Continue reading No amount of words

Our Dreams

A dream manifests in minutes but realizing it can take years,decades or even require so much strength and effort,that’s its easier to simply keep dreaming it than attempt to live it. If I could ask God one question it would be “God how many dreams have people abandoned since the beginning of time?” I wonder how shocking the answer would be. Postponing dreams or better yet our purpose and destiny seems to be the norm. Conversations about dreams goals and destiny could actually be described as awkward. When someone actually has the guts to dream publicly and expose it to … Continue reading Our Dreams